“Go With The Flow” VS “The Positive Theory”

I was once talking to a friend. He told me a story.

He said I was once sitting with a friend and He asked me how is everything going ?

And I replied               ” Just going with the flow”.

He then replied          ” Only dead straws go with the flow”

That was thought provoking. I use to apply the same theory to my life. Whenever my heart pinches me, I don’t want this to happen to you. I used to tap it gently and said ‘”just go with the flow”.

Whenever there was some problem in my life, I used to say to myself  “just go with the flow”.

Whenever I feel depressed and broken and find no way out, I wanted things to get normal again, I put my head down and remind myself of “just go with the flow” thing.

Now I feel I was dead from inside and I never tried to wake up myself. my mind and heart were dead. And i had accepted that death of them I was living with dead inner self.

But now, at the age of almost 22, I feel it wrong. I was wrong in thinking about my future. I was wrong in thinking about what will happen to me next and why. I used to think whatever happens to me, I deserved it ! It was due to what I did in the past. But I was being negative !! I was hopeless !!

I noticed one of my friends. I have seen her being negative about so many things but she never thought negative about her future. She always says something good will happen to me, she never felt hopeless like me. Even she use to dream really big about her future life. And I have seen her every wish coming true. Even I feel it like a miracle. We use to make fun of her like she has a losers approach or something. She always said she don’t try but she wishes , and her wishes comes true. Trying with wishing will make it even better I guess !!

I have noticed so many people who apply just go with the flow theory in their life and do nothing , wish nothing and pray nothing for it. On the other hand, people doing nothing but thinking positive got success!

Once I read about the positive energy. They say whenever you think something about anything very much, It will eventually come to you. Like when you will think positively, all the positive energies of universe will collectively start trying to get that thing to you … and eventually that will come to you. And this is true. The same happens when you think negative about something. Our mind emits positive and negative rays as we think and these rays eventually become a cause to get that thing for us. There is some science involved in it. As many secrets of universe are yet to be revealed, it may be one of them.

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The Annoying Theme Search !!

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Just started this new blog and the theme search for it turns out to be so annoying !! I am freaking out now !!! This is ridiculous !!!!!!!!!! Okaay relax …..

Decided this clean and nice cheer theme after changing three nice themes. Spent three hours in this simple theme search. And check my level….after applying every theme, the other one seemed better to me always !! It is because the things we get so easy lose their importance and the things we don’t have yet…..seems more important, This is life 🙂 Anyway I don’t’ want to switch my mood to the depressing one. So….why on earth they give clean pretty and very sophisticated and eye catching themes for money and unclean and less attractive themes for free 😦 not fair….. Is money this important to them ? Yeah may be it is !!

But above all I have tried blogger and other blogging sites too but I found word press the most easy to use and better than every other one….whether we talk theme wise or use wise…It is the best. I especially love the like and follow button on the top bar. You can like and follow someone even without reading or knowing what is in their blog 😛 And they get happy too 🙂 Making someone happy is the real task in today’s world when people have no time to even think they are happy or not. Anyway dropping from the line again and I apologize for it. The second thing I love about it is how fast your posts spread to people. I guess it has something to do with search engine rankings or so but I love this thing. Every time I open the stats and have a look at the visitors visiting my blog , My heart blooms and grows 😛 It is itself a reward when you write to amuse your own self and so many people see your work ad admires you !

Coming back to the theme thing. The ‘FREE’ themes I like most in word press are following. I don’t even bother to look at the paid ones 😛 (more…)

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